The Two Houses

I remember we lived in two places - one by the ocean and one by the woods. I spent a lot of time in Abom. Abom is near the ocean and near the fishermen. My grandmother, my father’s mother, was my favourite person when I was growing up. We did not live with my mother and father during most of our childhood as they were not living in Cape Coast. When my mother came to Cape Coast we would stay with her. So I really like Abom because of my grandmother. I remember my parents would never tell us when they were leaving when they visited us. They would just leave and I would cry after my mother. The second house was near the woods and was surrounded mainly by mango trees. It was one of only three houses in that area. There were not many people in that area - it was very secluded. There were some churches that would use the road near our house in the woods to go and bury people at the cemetery at the of the road. They would come with lamps. Invariably, this would take place at least once every two weeks. So we grew up with all sorts of fear of devils, ghosts and snakes as you can imagine. Especially when we had to cross through the woods with my friends to play. 

Date published:
May 8, 2024
Country:
Ghana
Early Life

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